What Should Our Wedding Budget Be, and How Do We Allocate It?

Planning a wedding or elopement is one of the most exciting journeys you’ll embark on as a couple. It’s a celebration of love, commitment, and the start of a new chapter—but let’s be honest, it can also be a bit overwhelming. One of the first and most crucial steps is figuring out your wedding budget and knowing how to allocate it effectively. In this blog, we’ll break it all down for you, from understanding what a wedding budget means to how much you might expect to spend in 2024 and beyond. Let’s dive in!

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What Does a Wedding or Elopement Budget Mean, and Why Is It Important?

A wedding budget is simply a financial plan for your big day. It outlines how much you plan to spend on every aspect of your wedding or elopement—from the venue and photographer to attire and florals. Having a budget helps you:

Avoid unnecessary financial stress.

Prioritize what matters most to you as a couple.

Keep track of spending and stay organized.

Ensure you don’t overspend and have funds left for your honeymoon or other goals.

Whether you’re planning a grand wedding or an intimate elopement, a well-thought-out budget ensures every dollar goes toward creating the experience you envision.

couple hiking down to lake for elopement spot

Why Do Some Vendors Cost More Than Others?

When you start contacting vendors, you might notice a wide range of prices for similar services. Here’s why:

Experience and Expertise: Seasoned vendors often charge more because they bring years of experience and a track record of delivering quality services.

Demand and Availability: High-demand vendors, especially during peak wedding seasons, tend to have higher rates.

Customization: Tailored services, like bespoke floral arrangements or personalized ceremonies, often come at a premium.

Location: Vendors in metropolitan areas or popular destination spots typically charge more due to higher operating costs.

Remember, while price is important, the value and quality of the services you’re getting matter even more.

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How to Figure Out Your Wedding Budget

Creating your wedding budget might feel daunting, but it doesn’t have to be. Here’s a step-by-step guide to help you:

Discuss Priorities: Sit down as a couple and determine what’s most important. Is it the venue, photography, or perhaps an unforgettable meal?

Know Your Total Budget: Calculate how much you’re comfortable spending. This might include savings, contributions from family, or other sources.

Research Average Costs: Look into the typical costs for the type of wedding or elopement you’re planning (more on that below).

Allocate Your Budget:

A general guideline for allocation is:

Venue and catering: 40–50% of the budget

Photography and videography: 10–15% of the budget

Attire and beauty: 10–13% of the budget

Flowers, decorations, and event styling: 10% of the budget

Entertainment, such as music or a DJ: 5–10% of the budget

Invitations, stationery, and postage: 5% of the budget

Transportation: 3–5% of the budget

Wedding favors and gifts: 3–5% of the budget

Tips: 2% of the budget

Cake: 3% of the budget

Keep in mind that your budget will shift based on what’s most important to you! For example, if you’re eloping, your wedding venue might only cost $150, or you may choose to prioritize photos and videos above everything else. You can adjust the order and amounts as needed to reflect what you want to spend.

Lake Tahoe elopement in meadow, dog howling during first kiss
Intimate Wedding on Lake Tahoe waterfront

How Much Do Weddings and Elopements Cost in 2024, and What’s Predicted for 2025?

The cost of weddings and elopements varies widely depending on factors like location, guest count, and season. Here’s a general breakdown:

Weddings in 2024:

Average Cost: $30,000 – $40,000 (U.S.)

Luxury Weddings: $75,000+

Micro Weddings: $10,000 – $15,000

Elopements in 2024:

Average Cost: $5,000 – $15,000 (U.S.)

Adventure Elopements: $8,000 – $20,000

Predicted Wedding Costs for 2025:

Given inflation and increasing demand, experts predict a 5-10% rise in overall wedding and elopement costs. According to recent data, the average cost of a wedding in 2025 is projected to be around $36,000. Planning early and locking in vendor contracts can help you save.

intimate wedding in garden
couple walking through garden after getting married

Average Cost for Vendors in 2025

As we look ahead to 2025, it’s important to consider that wedding costs may continue to rise due to inflation, demand, and the availability of vendors. Here’s a breakdown of what you can expect to pay on average for various wedding and elopement vendors:

Photographer/Videographer: $2,500 – $6,000+

Wedding Planner: $1,800 – $6,000+

Venue: $2,500 – $18,000+ (Venues in high-demand locations or with additional services included will cost more)

Caterer: $55 – $175 per person

Florist: $1,200 – $3,500+

Hair & Makeup Artist: $250 – $1,200+

DJ/Band: $1,200 – $4,500+

Officiant: $350 – $2,000+

Transportation: $600 – $2,500+

Cake: $600 – $2,000+

These figures are an estimate, and it’s essential to keep in mind that prices will fluctuate based on factors such as location, season, and your specific vendor choices. Always make sure to request quotes from vendors based on your needs and vision to get the most accurate numbers.

Lake Tahoe sunrise elopement with dog

Create Your Ultimate Wedding Budget List: Prioritize What Matters Most to You!

Now, let’s make this budgeting process a little more fun (and a lot more personalized)! Think of this as a game where YOU get to decide what’s most important for your day. By ranking each part of your wedding (or elopement), you’ll ensure your budget reflects what means the most to you, whether that’s stunning photos, a beautiful venue, or a delicious meal!

How to Play the Wedding Budget Game:

Grab your budget sheet (or download mine if you haven’t already! It’s linked at the bottom of this blog): This will be your guide for the entire budgeting process.

List your wedding essentials: Think about all the major categories you need to cover—Photography, Venue, Catering, Entertainment, Flowers, etc. Make sure you’re including everything that’s important to you.

Rank each vendor from 1 to 10:

1 = Top Priority: This is your absolute “must-have” vendor. It could be your photographer because you want every single moment captured in beautiful detail.

10 = Low Priority: This may be something that’s nice to have but not essential. Maybe it’s something you can do without or DIY, like fancy table settings.

Let the Budgeting Begin: Now that you’ve ranked your priorities, allocate a percentage of your budget to each. Start with your top priority (maybe photography or your venue) and assign a bigger chunk of your total budget to that vendor. As you move down your list, reduce the budget allocation accordingly, but make sure you’re keeping the important ones well-funded.

Example:

If Photography is your number one priority (you want those jaw-dropping photos for the rest of your life), give it a higher portion of your budget.

Maybe you don’t care as much about a lavish cake or extravagant florals. Those can get a lower portion of the budget, or perhaps DIY them to save costs.

Remember:

Flexibility is key: Life happens, and so do wedding budgets! As you start collecting quotes and proposals, you may realize your priorities shift a little. That’s totally okay! The point of this exercise is to get clarity on where you want to spend your money and what’s worth investing in for your big day.

It’s YOUR day: Whether it’s saying your vows in a cozy corner of the woods or at a grand ballroom, the most important thing is that your wedding reflects YOU. The money you spend should reflect the things that will make you feel happiest, most relaxed, and most excited.

Ready to play? Take a few minutes to work through this fun exercise with your partner and start seeing your budget come to life. You might even discover a few surprises about what’s truly important to you both! 🎉

couple kissing in meadow after intimate wedding

FAQ: Your Top Wedding Budget Questions Answered

1. How much should we budget for photography?
Photography typically accounts for 10-15% of your budget. For a professional photographer, expect to spend $2,500 to $6,000, depending on experience and location. Keep in mind that this will change based on how important photography is to you, if its the most important thing it could go up to 30-40% of your budget.

2. Do we really need a wedding planner?
If organization isn’t your strong suit or you’re planning a large wedding, a planner can be invaluable. They’ll help you stay on budget and take care of the details. If you’re eloping, a lot of elopement photographers, like myself, help with everything you need from permit assistance, timeline creation, vendor recommendations and so much more!

3. What’s the best way to save money?
Consider having an off-peak wedding, reducing your guest list, or DIYing certain aspects like invitations or favors.

4. Should we prioritize venue or photographer?
It depends on your priorities, but both play crucial roles. The venue sets the tone, while the photographer captures memories that last a lifetime. However, you should figure out whats more important to you.

5. How do we handle unexpected expenses?
Set aside 5-10% of your budget for unforeseen costs like overtime fees, weather-related changes, or last-minute decor upgrades.

Intimate Lake Tahoe Mountain wedding

Tools to Help You Stay on Track

Staying organized is key to managing your wedding budget. I’ve created a FREE customizable Google Sheet template to help you track expenses, set savings goals, and monitor your progress. It’s the ultimate tool for couples planning their dream wedding or elopement.

Click here to make your own copy!


Planning your wedding or elopement should be as joyful as the day itself. By setting a clear budget and staying organized, you’ll be able to enjoy the process without unnecessary stress. Happy planning!

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